May 21, 2008

Are We, the Church, Missing it?

51555rOCKYL__SL500_AA240_ At times, I feel that there is a barrier with the unchurched and the churched. A barrier with those far from God and with the churched. A barrier with those outside of the four walls of the church and with those inside the four walls of the church. What an enormous challenge which has great possibilities!

I just recently picked up the book called "No Perfect People Allowed" by John Burke. It is a book that helps followers of Christ rethink how they do ministry when it comes to reaching today's people. Here is what stuck out in chapter one.

  • "Unless Christians leading the church in America change, and unless the church begins living out the magnetic attractive force Jesus had on the world, the Christian church in America will be completely marginalized within decades." John Burke
  • John Burke described a small group out of Gateway Church that took smoking breaks. I laughed as I read that cause it sounds just like the Monday night coffee shop group in Royal Oak.
  • "Our goal cannot simply be a timid, powerless survival; it must be the role that Christ called the Church to play, that of a loving, authoritative, healing, and compelling influence upon the world...lacking such a turnabout, we may rightfully anticipate the virtual disappearance of the Christian Church in this nation." George Barna
  • John Burke stated that the US has more unchurched people than most in the world which we are not aware of.
  • We as committed followers of Christ need to jump in. We need to jump into the mess of cultural America. We need to die to our comfortable churchy lives and stop gathering with just followers of Christ. We need to engage with the unchurched and the lost. We need dive into the lives of others. We need to make Jesus visible to those who need it.
  • "God is responsible for the growth, for changed hearts, but the soil is the responsibility of the leaders and the Christ-followers who make up that church." John Burke
  • John Burke believes that it all starts with the leaders in the church in order to be effective. He stated, "Yet all too often, leaders implement new 'seeker' services or 'postmodern' services with cool music, candles, art, aesthetics, or whatever the latest conference hypes up, but miss the most essential nutrients for healthy Body-growth."
  • I have personally seen the above quote in action. Where others tend to copy methods and strategies from other churches or by what they read in the latest postmodern book yet they struggle when it comes to church growth or reaching the lost. It is where one looks to see what others are doing when it comes to outreaches or creative elements. Then, they bring it to their community hoping it would draw people in. The outreach ends up attracting the "churched" instead of who Jesus has called us to reach.  
  • He stressed that the people in the church are what matters. It is not the sweet hip music, the atmosphere, the edgy look, or even the movie clips. It is the people!  

Yesterday, I met a middle-aged woman at the salon that asked me about the book that I was reading. I explained it the best I could in one minute. This woman replied to me with many other women listening, "That is exactly what my girlfriends and I were talking about this past weekend. It's been years since we have been to a church." 

Today, I met a young man in a coffee shop who had the Bible cracked open and was journaling. We ended up engaging in conversation. I found out that he is a solid man of God yett he is unchurched. He was on staff at a huge church in the area and transitioned out. I asked him why and he stated, "I was convicted." This man has been unchurched for awhile because he feels as if the church is just missing the mark right now.  

It has been such an eye opener as I cracked open this book and had a conversation with those two individuals! Are we, the Church, missing it?

May 20, 2008

The Harassment Just Doesn't End

Bday 017Over the past week, I received harassing phone calls and even text messages from people counting down till I hit the big 30! Thank you Jenniy and thank you Mark! You are too kind!

Today, I received constant harassment from my co-workers, my employees, and even the YMCA members for hitting the big 30. They decorated my office with tons of balloons, bouqets of flowers, gifts, and cards. It was unbelievable! They even decorated my office window with paint broadcasting to all the members that it's my birthday and I am 30!

Oh, when will the harassment end?

May 19, 2008

I am Thirty. Hear Me Roar!

Tonight didn't go as planned. I was suppose to have dinner with my father, brother, sister in law, and the kids.  As usual, my dad didn't show up and my sister-in-law rushed the neighbor into the hospital. Life doesn't always go the way we want it but it is how we react to it. So even though the early part of the evening didn't turn out as expected, I got all revved up over the fact that I am now 30. I am pumped now. I am thrilled about getting old! Woo woo!

I chose to love it. I chose to embrace it. I am thirty. Hear me roar!

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and proclaiming, 'Wow! What a ride!'" Anonymous

Goodbye 20's, Hello 30's

CakeThose that know me know that I am one that is not big into birthdays. I will spare you the details on why. Today, marks a new decade for me. I am now 30 years old! Yes, I hit the big 30 mark! I am getting old aren't I? So far, I have yet to see a grey hair on my head. I am going to try to keep it like that. :)

Even though I am aging I am looking forward to the fact that my life is forever with God. Above all my wants and desires, I pray that ten years from now, twenty years from now, and so on that I am a woman who is crazy about Jesus. I pray that I may daily be satisfied with a sweet relationship with the One who rescued me.

Today, I prayed these verses over my life.

"Teach us how short our lives really are so that we may be wise. Fill us with your love every morning. Then we will sing and rejoice all our lives. We have seen years of trouble. Now give us as much joy as you gave us sorrow."  Psalm 90:12, 14-15

May 16, 2008

An Everyday Ritual

Grandma_006I have the privilege and honor of seeing my sister-in-law and the kids several times a week seeing that she works at the same location I do. I love it!

My twenty one year old niece and I have an everyday ritual. Lindsay comes to my office and stands in front of me with a big smile on her face. She then opens her pockets and points to the area where I store the goodies. I of course then grab a few smarties and throw them in her pocket.

This sweet girl always walks out of my office with an even bigger smile and giggles all the way back to the child care room. Gotta love being an aunt! 

May 15, 2008

Interviews

Cauiwsw5cal9eji2caaugbjvcaarpijvca1Interviews can be quite nerve recking but I surely enjoy them. I think it is because I am the one that does the interview most of the time. I find it strange that I am known in our association to give an intense interview. I wouldn't necessarily call my interview process intense. I just enjoy getting to know the individual that is applying for the position. I want to see if they would make a good fit so I take them through an in depth interrogation. Ops, I meant interview!

Lately, I along with my lead team have been interviewing like crazy trying to find the right individuals to join our staff team. One of my favorite fun questions that I always throw out is "What motivates you in life? What makes you want to roll out of bed and live life?" Their reply tells much about them. Over the past few weeks, I have heard the following answers.

  • Family and Friends
  • Money
  • Material things
  • God
  • I don't know. Good question.

So, what motivates you in life? Why do you roll out of bed everyday? Why do you live life?

May 12, 2008

Sticking Out Like a Sore Thumb

There are so many out there that believe in a god and they consider themselves to be spiritual. Now, what god they believe in is the question.

About a week ago, I had lunch with an individual from the Monday night group who regularly gathers in a holistic center in Farmington Hills once a week for an hour of meditation. He explained to me that the hour of silence can consist of thinking, reflecting, praying, and journaling. The meditation room can be filled with followers of Christ, Jews, Muslims, and Buddhists all at the same time. He ranted and raved about the diversity in the room.

I also love diversity . Here is the difference between us. The diversity in that room breaks my heart over the fact that they all are missing out on who Jesus Christ is. I explained to him that they are missing out on the joy of salvation and the freedom from the power of sin. He then gently called or labeled me as a fundamentalist. I explained to him in love that he can call me what he wants but Jesus clearly said, "I am the way, truth, and the life..."

Jesus was very specific!

Christ stuck out like a sore thumb when He walked the earth and with the words that He spoke. He was different. Many loved Him and wanted to be around Him as much as possible. They knew that there was just something about Him. In the same way, followers of Christ need to stick out like a sore thumb when it comes to spirituality. Sticking out in a positive way where we others become curious. Sticking out when it comes a relationship with Jesus. Sticking out when it comes to loving the unchurched and the lost. Sticking out when it comes to loving and taking care of the misfits, orphans, and widows.

Sticking out while carrying a great reputation!

May 10, 2008

I Made the Mothers Cry!

Well, it was a success! We ran our very first Mothers Day Mother Son Dance at the Y last night and it was a hit. My goal was to make the mothers feel special and to make them cry. It worked!  Mission accomplished! Tons of couples attended and they are now asking for a Daddy-Daughter dance!

The mothers and their sons were decked out in their outfits. We had a dj for the dance, pictures, snacks, punch, and the gym was full of decorations. At the end of the evening, every son gave their mother an iris and hugged them while wishing them a happy Mothers Day. It was beautiful!

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Seeing that I am not a mother yet, I kidnapped these two handsome boys. Their mother (one of our employees) left them as orphans that evening. I am telling you...these two boys and I busted it out on the dance floor. It was hilarious! We tore it up! 

May 08, 2008

Eat Em Up Tigers!

Tigers_016_2Last night, we took an engaged couple from the Monday night coffee shop group to their very first Tigers game. Oh, what a game it was!

When we entered the 8th inning, I was nervous as all could be. If I could of paced back and forth, I would of. Instead, I just screamed loudly for my boys. I think I need to use my diaphragm more next time seeing that my voice did not sound the best today.

The Tigers had a perfect ending last night against the Boston Red Sox. Placido Polanco was at bat and all 38,000 people were on their feet rooting him on. He made beautiful contact with that ball which brought in the winning run. The Tigers had a sweet comeback victory in the 9th inning which landed us 10-9. We are now at 15 W and 20 L!

Now, what happened with the Pistons??? Poor Billups!

May 04, 2008

Oh, Where is AnneMarie?

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I was just looking at my pictures on my lap top and I came across this one. I laughed and I laughed hard. Yes, I have a stalker!

Two good friends of mine (Richie & Michelle) decided to play "Where's AnneMarie" instead of "Where's Waldo" at Comerica Park. They somehow found me in the midst of thousands of people and took this picture from a distance. As you can tell, the picture was edited to add a bit more character and then e-mailed out to several individuals. I just love their sense of humor! :)

I was at a game with a big time Dodgers fan that loves to send me harassing text messages about the Tigers. You can read more about this Dodger fan here and here!

Gotta love friends that can make you laugh!